Funeral Arrangements
A funeral is an important event for a grieving family, many may find it overwhelming; however, many families find they benefit emotionally from honouring their loved one at their funeral. A brief list of things to remember for funeral planning can be found here.
Usually, the next of kin or executor of the last will and testament is responsible for signing off the funeral. However, this is not always the case, and you are encouraged to share any concerns you have about this with the nominated funeral director. A delegated family member or close friend of the family can organize the funeral.
Whilst it helps if only one person liaises with the funeral director, we encourage families to work together to share the load and support each other through this difficult time.
After the post-mortem examination of your loved one, the coroner will usually authorise the release of the body. The post-mortem examination does not usually interfere with the viewing of your loved one at the funeral if you so wish, however you can discuss this with the funeral director. You may use the funeral director of your choice, and you can arrange this as soon as you feel able; the funeral director will guide you through what you need to do. It may be a good idea to talk with family members and delegate one person who is able to liaise with the funeral director to make the necessary arrangements. A brief list of things to remember for funeral planning can be found here 'How Do I Organise The Funeral'.
Some funeral directors are members of the Queensland Funeral Directors Association, meaning they subscribe to a code of ethics. Irrespective of this, it is reasonable to assume dignified and respectful treatment from a funeral director. Remember, this is your private day, and you are the client, feel free to shop around and find a funeral director that you are comfortable with, and who will treat you and your family with dignity and respect.
For more information on funeral directors, or to view the Funeral Directors Code of Ethics, contact Funerals Australia (formerly Australian Funeral Directors Association).
On the day of your loved one's funeral, you may organize for a viewing to take place. Otherwise, you will arrive with other guests, taking some time to speak with friends and family if you wish. Once the service begins, everyone will be seated, and the celebrant or minister will invite friends and family to read their personal eulogies. Usually, one or two songs are played during the ceremony, and these can be your loved one’s favourite songs, or a song that reflects your loved one’s life. If your loved one is being buried, pallbearers will be asked to carry your loved one either to the gravesite or to the Hurst to be driven to the gravesite, where more words or prayers will be shared, along with scattering of flowers or releasing of balloons or doves in their honour. Cremations; however, are usually conducted at the funeral home.
